The purpose of a stay at home mom
In our society today, there are many stay at home moms who struggle with their purpose! This is mainly due to the massive amount of pressure our society puts on the women to be career oriented and to help bring in money for different reasons. My desire in writing this today is not to judge the mother who works, please know my heart on this as I grasp the different reasons mothers feel the need to work and others just don’t like staying at home. Not staying at home does not make you a bad mom. Both working moms and stay at home moms are valuable and both work hard. My desire is to simply share what I believe the purpose of a stay at home mom is.
God places extraordinary value in a mom! God looks at a mom and places extreme significance upon her life! I truly believe that being a mom is one of the highest honors that God can place on a human being! Look at a mother’s eyes when you mention their children! You will never see a gleam so bright.
Mom, if God has given your family the ability to stay at home, count yourself very blessed as the majority of American moms cannot stay at home. I know there are sacrifices that may need to be made and things you will not be able to do, but the richly rewarding experience is far greater than those material items and events.
I realize also that in our jobs it is nice to be appreciated and told so. Being a stay at home mom can be the most thankless job. Let the thousands of cuddles, smiles, and I love you’s say thank you! By the way, all you stay at home moms reading this…Thank you!!! Oh yeah, and not to mention the taking care of the home and being the most amazing mate to your husband. Your paycheck would be gigantic if you were paid monetarily.
You must grasp your identity in Christ and not in what the world says! You must know the truth behind who you are and what God’s will is. You are showing the ultimate sacrifice of self. Your selflessness is insurmountable.
So your highly educated and have specialty experience in a area and society ask you why you are wasting it. Easy answer…for this phase of my life, I am changing lives on kid at a time in order for him/her to make a lasting impact on this world when this phase is over. The education will always be there, but these few years to invest whole heartedly in my child will not. Therefore, the sacrifices, insanity cry outs, and thankless days are worth it to change the planet one little life at a time. You are making a career at home that one day may change when they leave the home, but for now have no doubt this is where you are suppose to be. No one else has a hand in raising your children. There is a time for everything, and you believe your time right now is for your child to be able to say…my mommy was there!!
Mom, realize that you are committed to a cause! You are investing into life change! You are a hero!
*Side note: I know there are different reasons for different women to not stay at home and that is their option and decision just as it is for the stay at home mom. For those of you who are career oriented and work, I know your desire to is be the best mommy and I pray God blesses you in that desire. To those who may judge you for working…who cares what they think.